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When Equity Gets Complicated #adoptiontruths #adoptiveparenting #antiracistparenting #blackownedbusiness #decolonizeparenting #fasd #fetalalcoholspectrumdisorders #messyconversations #parentingneurodivergence #therapymatters #understandingfasd #unlearningwhiteness #whiteawakeparenting Jun 06, 2025

What I Learned from Blindly Trusting a Black-Owned Counseling Practice

I believe deeply in supporting Black-owned businesses.

As a white mother raising Black children, I know representation matters — not just in books and movies, but in the people who surround and serve my kids. Especially in the ...

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"I'm Not a Savior" - And That's a Good Thing - When Privilege Sneaks Into Parenting #adoptiontruths #adoptiveparentjourney #antiracismparenting #bipocvoicesmatter #deceteringwhiteness #listentoblackvoices #parentingawakening #parentingwithhumility #saviorcomplex #transracialadoption #unlearningprivilege #whiteparensraisingblackchildren Jun 01, 2025

Even thinking of yourself as a “rescuer” assumes someone else needed saving.

That someone else had misfortune. That you’re offering them something they didn’t have.

And the heartbreaking part is - your children feel that imbalance, even if they don't yet have the words for it.

They life in a worl...

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