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You Can't Fuck Your Way Out of Racism #antiracismwork #dothework #listenandlearn #parentingwithpurpose #racialawareness #racismisasystem #realtalkonrace #unlearningwhiteness #whiteawakeparenting #whiteprivilege

What I Learned About Whiteness, Blackness and Real Accountability

The first time someone said to me, “Yeah, you can’t fuck your way out of racism,” I was stopped cold. It felt like a slap, a truth so sharp I didn’t quite know what to do with it. For three months, it simmered in the back of my mind ...

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Stop Trying to Be the Good White Person #antiracismwork #deconstructingkaren #goodwhitepersonmyth #listentoblackvoices #parentingacrossrace #racialhumility #realnotperformative #unlearningwhiteness #whiteawakeparenting #whitenessisnotinnocence

Why “I Have Black Kids” Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is

Let’s just say it:
If your go-to defense against racism is “I have Black kids” or “I have a Black friend,” you’ve missed the point.

Yes, I’m a white parent of Black children.
And I’m telling you: that doesn’t give me a free pass.
It doesn’t me...

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