Reflections in Real Time

You Should Have Known; You're the Parent #collectivegrief #dismantlingwhitecomfort #intergenerationalhealing #interracialadoption #latetotheawakening #parentingwithhumility #racialjusticeathome #transracialadoption #truthinparenting #whiteadoptiveparents #whiteparentsdothework

When Awakening Feels Like Betrayal

After a hard conversation with their child—one of those moments that lands like a quiet earthquake—a parent found themselves haunted by a single phrase:

“You’re not the villain… but you’re definitely not the victim.”

That sentence rang through their heart li...

What Love Looks Like #advocatedontassume #blackmalementor #blackmentorshipmatters #blackyouthmatter #dismantlingwhiteness #fasdawareness #humilityinparenting #intergenerationalhealing #ittakesavillage #learningtolisten #lovelookslikeshowingup #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #parentingwhilewhite #presentparent #raisingblackchildren #supportnotsavior #transracialadoption #wraparoundsupport

Melvin Hawkins Is Our Rock

There are some people who change your life just by showing up. Melvin is one of those people—for my son, and by extension, for me.

My son needed something I could never give him. Not because I didn’t love him. Not because I didn’t try. But because some things can’t be ta...