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Trevor Noah and the Great White Genocide That Wasn’t (But Somehow Still Made Headlines) #dancorder #eugenekhoza #parentingwithhumor #racialjustice #raisingblackkids #trevornoah #undoingwhiteness #whatnow #whiteawakeparenting #whitegenocidemyth

Oh my god. Trevor Noah has done it again.

I just listened to his new podcast episode—you know, the one where he unpacks the completely imaginary “white genocide” that just ain't happening—and I laughed so hard I had to pull over.

If you haven’t heard the episode yet, pause here and go listen to "T...

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Why I Started White Awake Parenting: A Journey From Fear to Fierce Love #blackandbrownlove #courageousparenting #endracism #loveandtruth #parentingacrossrace #parentingforchange #parentingwithpurpose #racialjustice #raiseantiracistkids #transracialadoption #whiteawakeparenting

When my beautiful, Black children came to me through adoption, I thought love was enough. But very quickly, I realized it wasn’t. Not in a country still deeply scarred by racism, systemic injustice, and unequal power.

If we white parents don’t do the work — if we don’t face our own whiteness, unlea...

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Am I Racist? A Hard Question for White Parents of Black or Brown Kids #amiracist #antiracismjourney #blacklivesmatter #endracism #equityandinclusion #parentingacrossrace #racialjustice #raiseantiracistkids #unlearnracism #whiteaccountability #whiteawakeparenting #whiteprivilege #wokeparenting

It only took 10 seconds for educator Jane Elliott to demonstrate how racism lives in all of us.

She asked a room full of mostly white people:

“If you would be happy to be treated as this society treats our Black citizens, please stand up.”

No one stood.

She waited a moment and repeated the q...

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